...But that doesn't mean I don't love everything you're doing. 😊
I don't know how common this is for people with penises vs. people with vaginas, but I just don't climax from sexual contact. Never have. Did I "ruin" myself by masturbating too much in my youth? Is it all an anxiety-based repression (that's probably a lot of it, actually... I have a hard time peeing with people around, too. ¯\(ツ)/¯)?
I don't know. Over the years, I've sort of stopped caring; I love sex, I love receiving pleasure, and while I would like to have orgasms with partners, it's... just not really the point, you know?
Totally fair that some people really gain fulfillment from bringing their partner to orgasm. We might just not be sexually compatible with each other, and that's ok.
I'm curious: how common an experience is this? How does it affect your sex life? Is this something you overcame (pun intended)? How? 🤔