I was thinking about power dynamics today. No surprise, but I’ve been fortunate enough to be developing a new dynamic lately, so it’s especially on my mind.
I was thinking about how intensely erotic and fulfilling it feels to claim ownership of someone, and to be owned.
At …
I have been spending a lot of time on my hypnokink in the last few months.
I’ve been very fortunate to have no fewer than 3 frequent playmates in that time, and we talk a lot. Plus, I joined Twitter, and it’s a fun way to interact with …
I’ve been negotiating with some of my playmates how we can play together as a group. This is new ground for me, and it’s both exciting... and challenging.
I don’t have tons of experience with intense, ongoing D/s dynamics. I’ve done some of that, but …
Sometimes I wonder if I could be a good “top”.
See, I’m switchy. That doesn’t even really cover it, actually: “switchy” kind of suggests I might like switching sometimes. No. I need to be submissive. And I also need to be dominant. Yeah, I have a given mood …
You know, it just this moment coalesced for me what turns me on and off about potential partners on either the dom or sub part of the spectrum.
I like being controlled, but I don’t like being an object of scorn. I don’t like “female1 supremacy”, I …